Tuesday, June 15, 2010

Good Things Come To Those Who Wait, and Wait . . . and Wait. . .

It's an addage that not many people today believe in. I see people walking around who "want it now".

Patience is a virtue.

I was gabbing on the phone with my author friend, Ron Martelet. He's a sexigenarian who wrote and self-published the book "Propeller Head". Well, we've been to 2 book signings in our area, and he calls to catch up. We gabbed probably for the better part of 20 minutes. I was about to check my e-mail. And he'd just gotten home, probably wanted to put away his groceries.

Well I'd e-mailed editor yesterday. Told her everything I'd been doing, how I'd been to certain sites trying to improve my writing--I went to Grammar Girl, now I can't live without it, and am getting weekly newsletter, which will really come in handy, if I'm ever trying to figure out if I'd used the wrong usage of some word, or placed commas where I shouldn't. That sort of thing.

I didn't really think I would hear from her before the week was out. I figured (rightly) that she had been at a conference, and had been busy with other things.

She was very happy to hear what I'd been doing in order to better my writing. She needed to catch up to her work, so she said she would get back to me.

But she said something that was rare and I realized she was sharing something with me, just as I had shared something with her in my e-mail. She told me that if she'd promised herself if she ever became an editor, she wouldn't reject someone out of hand, but tell them what was wrong with their writing. And she was glad that I appreciated this.

Yeah, I would much rather have an editor say "Well, you've said this earlier" or "You tell to much here."

I'd rather have that person tell me that than just give me a total rejection.

Simply knowing this gives me an up-lifted heart. I've been rather out of sorts for the past 2 weeks, wondering if I had a real chance with this publisher, or not. Well,
maybe good things do come to those who wait. I've been waiting for 40+ years.

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